Frances Kay Livingston

Frances Kay Livingston, 88, of Bradenton, Florida, passed away peacefully on February 17, 2026, surrounded by the love and prayers of her family. Born on August 6, 1937, in Highland, Illinois, Kay was the only child of Francis Madison Loudon and Arlyne Harriss Loudon. She was raised in Highland by devoted parents who instilled in her a strong sense of independence, personal conviction, and joy in living. From an early age, she was social, spirited, and deeply loyal to her friends. Her close-knit circle of lifelong companions, affectionately known as “The Sexy Seven,” remained one of the great and enduring joys of her life and a constant source of laughter and connection. Kay graduated from Highland High School in 1955 and attended Southern Illinois University before marrying the love of her life, Gary Glenn Livingston. Together they built their life in Belleville and Highland, Illinois, raising their family and forming deep and lasting friendships. Gary preceded her in death in 1995. Kay devoted her professional life to serving others through her work with the Bond County Department of Public Aid. As a social worker, she approached her responsibilities with compassion, integrity, and a strong belief in doing what was right. She cared deeply about people and quietly lived out her values through her work and her example. Highland remained her home for many years and the place where many of her most meaningful relationships were formed. She was an active member of the First Congregational Church of Highland, where she developed deep and lasting friendships. Among those closest to her were the Green and White families, whose bonds with Kay endured throughout her life. Even after moving away, she remained closely connected to her Highland friends, speaking with them regularly and welcoming their visits. She returned to Illinois regularly, staying with friends and family and nurturing the relationships that meant so much to her. In 2009, Kay moved to Buena Vista, Colorado, where she made her home with her son Sam and his wife Barbara. She had her own “wing” in their house, maintaining her independence while becoming an integral and deeply loved part of their daily lives. Those years marked a special period of closeness and bonding, strengthening her relationship with Sam and Barbara and creating lasting memories together. She formed meaningful friendships through her church and community in Buena Vista, while remaining deeply devoted to her lifelong friends and family in Illinois. In 2021, Kay moved to Westminster in Bradenton, Florida, drawn both to the welcoming community there and to be closer to her daughter Anne and her family. The Beckford’s became an essential and cherished part of her daily life, and their closeness brought her great comfort and peace. Anne, Mendel, and their children, Darius and Rayona, cared for Kay with love and devotion, surrounding her with family and ensuring she was never alone. At Westminster, Kay formed new friendships, participated in social activities and music performances, and remained engaged in the life around her. In her later years, she became increasingly reflective and prayerful, maintaining her deep devotion to her family and her faith. Kay was a devoted and generous mother to her children, Sam Livingston (Barbara), Anne Beckford (Mendel), and John Livingston (Erin). She was steadfast in her support, present for their school events, milestones, and defining moments. She believed deeply in faith, family, and personal responsibility, and she instilled those values through her example. As “Grandma Kay,” she found one of her greatest and most enduring joys. Though distance often separated them, she remained closely connected to each of her grandchildren, praying for them daily and following their lives with pride and care. She traveled to be present for births, graduations, and important family milestones whenever she could. Her love extended as well to the grandchildren and great-grandchildren in Sam and Barbara’s family, whom she embraced fully and loved as her own. To Kay, family was defined not only by blood, but by love, presence, and lifelong devotion. Kay lived life fully and with enthusiasm, cherishing above all the people who filled her life with meaning. She loved music—especially big band classics and timeless crooners like Engelbert Humperdinck—and she loved to dance. She and Gary created a home that welcomed others, hosting gatherings marked by music, storytelling, and deep friendship. She was happiest surrounded by those she loved—laughing with old friends, sharing stories with family, and enjoying the simple joy of being together. She was known for her honesty, generosity, unmistakable laugh, and fierce loyalty to those she loved. She spoke her mind, stood by her convictions, and loved deeply. Her strength, resilience, and joyful spirit remained evident throughout her life. She was preceded in death by her beloved husband, Gary Glenn Livingston, and her parents, Francis Madison Loudon and Arlyne Harriss Loudon. She is survived by her children, Sam Livingston (Barbara), Anne Beckford (Mendel), and John Livingston (Erin); her grandchildren; the extended grandchildren and great-grandchildren she lovingly embraced as part of her family; and lifelong friends who were deeply enriched by her life and love. Visitation will be held Saturday, February 28, 2026, at Spengel-Boulanger Funeral Home in Highland, IL, from 9:00 am to 11:00 am, with the funeral service at 11:00 am. Interment will follow at Highland City Cemetery in Highland, IL, where she will be laid to rest beside her beloved husband Gary and her parents. Her family asks that she be remembered with laughter, music, and gratitude for a life fully lived and for the love she gave so freely to those around her. Memorial contributions may be made to the American Heart Association or Habitat for Humanity.

Frances Kay Livingston

August 6, 1937 - February 17, 2026